Family of three – it’s all about love

If you are new to this blog page.. this site, please read from the bottom up, I haven’t figure out how to reserve the order of messages and photos I post. It may not be possible.  Happy days it’s always better to start at the beginning don’t you think?  Mary C.

LIVE, LOVE AND LAUGHTER

You can’t imagine the laughter that goes on in this house, we can’t even get breakfast down as my husband, daughter and I swap funny stories that happen to us the previous day.  As people age they change and only those that truly have love in their hearts stay together thru the up and downs. At night it’s the same, just about impossible to watch tv as there are so many jokes or  questions and answers flying though lengthy debates, I can’t get started till the wee hours of the morning. Work that is or is embroidery and sewing suppose to be fun.

Outsiders don’t get it, it like saying you have to walk a mile in my shoes sometimes.  They can’t see that discussion are not arguments but just adults in the heat of conversation.  Loud people are just that loud people, they laugh loud, they express themselves strongly, they are passionate about things and those they love;  they may yell and scream but it’s  part of the norm –  I know it  totally normal in our home.

We laugh so much it hurts our sides  and most of the time dinner discussions are so funny we end up with cold food or indigestion.

My husband is one of the most wonderful men in the whole world.   Don’t believe me?  just ask anyone, for he helps someone, some stranger everyday and puts smiles on everyone faces over and over again.  ( he even saved a man life, literally, long distance two days ago )

My daughter is the most beautiful, caring and intelligent  person I know inside and out why… for she has no hate in her heart; when she gives you her love and even strangers her support you receive every ounce of it.  She is the sparkle of her father’s eye and she is the jewel in her mother’s heart.

Poor Moms – who knows what people think but GOD knows. Mother are the glue and without us you don’t get your first breath of life and continued boost of confidence that you can be a good human beings.  With age comes wisdom ?  Some never get it.  Immature and selfish people don’t understand  life and they don’t respect anyone.

Life gives women more than their share of health issues and the awful headaches ( the three stages of womanhood what a crook ) and heaven help us mothers… motherhood is no picnic.  Life give men more than their share of work load (major breadwinners) but being a responsible adult means you just do it, you handle it.

Yep we are all tired – my retired husband went back to work, after all a responsible man pays his debts.. the plumbing needed to be fixed… that is also why I am working hard at getting my embroidery business off the ground.  Sure it has to be on the small-scale… I am old and work ten times slower than I use to but I still strive for perfection in any of my arts.  I have had so many jobs plus two successful businesses from the time I could walk as a child and though my adult life after college, but who remembers just me.  What have I learned?  I have learned that there is always someone jealous of your hard work,  they view  yours as the  “easy life”  with no bumps and no hills to climb over.   Uhmm, walk a mile in my shoes sometimes and feel my pain. Walk a mile in my husband pain filled body and feel his pain. Walk a mile in my daughter body that is attacking itself and feel her pain.  There are so many people in pain in this world, it is a shame they spent their time just trying to hurt others to make themselves feel better.   If only you pray .. yes pray to GOD .. he will help you make it though.

Bless everyone and pray for everyone.   Mary C.